A man who was stalked and harassed by his former partner has accused police of failing to take the case seriously because he was a gay man.
Jack* and his partner of five years, Paul*, who both live in Harrogate, broke up in early 2021.
Although the split was instigated by his partner, and was initially amicable, Jack said Paul soon began to turn up at his house and at places he would usually visit.
Jack said:
“Though there was no physical altercation, he often targeted my home. He tried to gain entry and would often appear in the garden – on one occasion my dog was nearly killed.
“He’d shout at people visiting my home from his car, monitor my friends and families activities. He used to set up dating profiles attempting to send abuse. There were occasions where he used my credit card details for online purchases, turned up at my place of work, approach me in restaurants…
“There were numerous situations like that over the course of five months. He started locating me and rev his car next to me if I was out walking.
“It meant I couldn’t operate a normal life without some kind of obstruction and feeling very unsafe and frightened.”
Eventually, after realising how much Paul’s actions were affecting his social and work life, Jack decided to contact the police last June.
He was initially uncertain whether the situation was something the police would deal with, but was reassured by the call handler.
“Immediately, they said it was stalking and harassment. They said they would send someone out, and he called later that day to organise a visit. He came to take a statement within a couple of days.
“He repeated to me that it was serious and said my ex would be brought in and arrested and they would impose bail conditions to keep him away from me.”
Relieved
Jack said he felt relieved he was being taken seriously and waited to receive an update from the officer.
However, he never received a call.
“A month went by and nothing had happened. I tried to get in contact and had no response.
“Another month went by of the same thing. I heard there was a warrant out for his arrest, but after that a lot of time went by with nothing, no arrest, no feedback.”
Meanwhile, Paul’s behaviour continued to make Jack feel uncomfortable. Jack reported further instances of stalking and harassment, but never heard anything back.
He received a call from a specialist police officer who advised getting new locks, increasing home security and changing his routine. While Jack appreciated the advice, it also served as a reminder that he could be in danger.
By mid-September, Jack said he felt frustrated that he had still heard nothing and submitted a complaint to the police by email. It took six weeks for them to respond.
The answer from an inspector in early November was that the PC assigned to his case was inexperienced, and had been given advice about his work.
Paul had now been interviewed, he said, and a file would be submitted to the CPS for advice about charging him.
In an email seen by the Stray Ferret, the inspector added:
“I am sorry that you didn’t receive the service you expected, but this was purely down to [the officer’s] relative inexperience, managing competing pressures of his workload and his thought process in not thinking it appropriate to ring [Paul] or visit his work premises.”
Yet more time passed with no information from the police. Jack emailed again asking for updates, and for a copy of his original statement, but received no response.
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He heard no further until February this year, when IDAS – the domestic abuse charity which he had been put in touch with by police after he first called them – told him the case had been dropped five weeks earlier.
The reason was nothing to do with evidence or proof. Rather, Jack said, it was because the officer dealing with the case had only passed the file to the CPS a week before charges had to be made or the case had to be dropped.
Effectively, there was not enough time for the CPS to process it before the six-month deadline for dealing with the case had passed.
While he accepts there is nothing he can do in his case, Jack said he hopes raising the issue publicly will help other victims who might face similar problems.
He believes complaints of stalking and harassment are taken more seriously when made by women about men, but said that shouldn’t be the case.
Jack said:
“I have spoken to women in Harrogate who have been in the same situation and that’s not what happened for them. I have no doubt, if I had been a woman, it would have been very different.
“It’s not about being homophobic. But when it’s a man complaining about a man, it’s treated differently.”
Jack has now taken his complaint to the Police, Fire and Crime Commissioner, Zoe Metcalfe. He is awaiting a response from her.
He said:
“If I had read a story about this situation six or eight months ago, I would have done something sooner. I would have known it was not normal procedure – a lot of people would just assume you can’t complain [about the police] and what they say goes, but it’s not always the case.”
The Stray Ferret contacted North Yorkshire Police, but we were told they could not respond while the case was being investigated by the PFCC.
The PFCC’s office said it could not comment on an individual case because of data protection. A spokesperson declined to comment on the issue of whether gender or sexuality could play a part in officers’ handling of cases, but added:
“If somebody is not happy with anything that the police do, they should contact our office and make a complaint and we will investigate it.
“Let us know about it, because people should be happy. We don’t like it when people are unhappy with the service that’s provided by the police.”
*names changed to protect identities
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The two males are also being questioned about a further alleged robbery that took place on Wentworth Drive in Harrogate on the same night.
The first alleged incident, on Hookstone Chase, is said to have happened at around 6pm on Tuesday, May 17. The Wentworth Drive incident followed at 10.30pm.
The two males are in custody. Police said they are assisting officers with their enquiries.
Yesterday, police published an appeal for two teenage white males wearing grey tracksuits.
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The incident took place on Oxford Street in Harrogate between 2.30am and 3am on Thursday, November 25 last year.
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The force confirmed today that a man has come forward following the appeal.
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The police community support officers from Harrogate’s neighbourhood policing team were called to the McDonald’s on Cambridge Road following reports that the girls, aged 13,14 and 15, had entered despite being banned due to anti-social behaviour earlier in the evening.
The group refused to leave when asked by officers and trouble flared at around 7pm.
One of the PCSOs suffered a suspected broken nose and the other sustained tissue damage to the cheek. Both received hospital treatment.
Detective Constable Amy Sharrad, who is leading on the investigation, today thanked people who had given information. She added:
“We are aware of some footage circulating on social media of the incident, and would ask that those who have posted footage to contact us as soon as possible with any information.”
Anyone who has any information that can assist the investigation can email Detective Constable Amy Sharrad at amy.sharrad@northyorkshire.police.uk or call North Yorkshire Police on 101.
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Police were called to reports of a man threatening a woman in the Skipton Road area and officers detained a man in his 40s at the scene.
He was arrested and searched, and officers found bags of white powder, which is believed to be cocaine, two knives and a quantity of cash in the suspect’s possession.
This led to a further search of his house in the Skipton Road area of Harrogate, where further items were discovered including:
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Posts on social media suggested cars on nearby Hartwith Drive and other streets nearby had also been damaged during the night.
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The clip shows four police officers attempting to hold the man down while he shouts “get off”.
One officer then appears to knee the man in the head before another officer appears to punch him in the stomach three times.
North Yorkshire Police has said the man was making threats to kill.
The video was filmed in a secluded courtyard in Harrogate town centre by Stephanie Tate on Friday October 1 at about midday.
Ms Tate told the Stray Ferret she decided to film the incident after watching the altercation and becoming concerned about the police’s approach.
She said what she witnessed was “shocking” and made her feel “sick to my stomach”.
Ms Tate said:
“I could hear shouting and thought someone was getting attacked.
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She added:
“I feel they already had him restrained and there was no need to punch and kick him.”
A spokesperson for North Yorkshire Police said it was reviewing the conduct of the officers involved.
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The arrested man was taken into custody, where he remained for questioning this morning. Officers were still at the scene of the incident today.
North Yorkshire Police is now appealing for witnesses and information about the incident. Anyone who was in the Mayfield Grove area last night and saw any suspicious activity is asked to call the force on 101.
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Officers from the force’s Operation Expedite team, which tackles drug crime, stopped the males.
A large quantity of suspected heroin and crack cocaine was seized and the pair were arrested on suspicion of possessing class A drugs with intent to supply.
The 20-year-old was later released on bail and the 16-year-old released while under investigation. The police said enquiries are continuing.
This arrest was part of North Yorkshire Police’s attempts to disrupt county lines drug dealing.

The drugs found on the pair were suspected class A drugs.
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After a 12 hour shift, the last thing I expect is my colleague to have to visit A&E after a suspect bit him & spat in officers faces during arrest in #Harrogate The individual is now in custody for numerous offences & thankfully my colleague is safely home #ProtectTheProtectors pic.twitter.com/IrAQCN52ef
— Sgt Paul Cording BEM (@OscarRomeo1268) September 10, 2020
In the arrest one of the officers was spat at and suffered a bite to the hand. He needed to attend A&E for medical treatment.
North Yorkshire Police said the officers adhered to coronavirus safety measures throughout the incident and appealed for witnesses to come forward.
Anyone with information has been urged to contact the force on 101 and quote reference number 12200158787.
Alternatively contact Crimestoppers anonymously by calling 0800 555111.


